Listen in to Valda Ford as she shares her experiences in giving birth and the hurdles she faced, especially during her second birth. Through her story, she emphasizes the importance of being open and honest with partners, understanding cultural norms and practices, and exploring pleasure in a safe environment. She also sheds light on navigating the paternalistic healthcare system and how it ultimately led to the death of her son due to a lack of listening and miscommunication. Valda became an RN to learn the language and be able to have the necessary conversations with providers, as well as to be an advocate for those who don't know how to speak up for their needs. Her journey from pain to purpose is now empowering others to find their voice and amplify it in order to ensure they are heard.
Valda Ford is an RN who has worked on 6 continents. Valda sees every aspect of the human condition and strives to make good health easier to achieve. She brings the facts and helps with the fantasy! From what to know to what to do - she has answers and is not afraid of the questions!
She is here to talk about Serious Issues to Satisfying Solutions: Having Healthy Babies and Having Healthy Sex
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“I became a nurse to learn the language, to be able to have the conversation, to be able to say, ‘I understand exactly what you're saying. I know what the standards and procedures are, and you need to listen to me.’ I found that many people do not have that.”
” - Valda Ford
“Think about the fact that sex is and should be beautiful. It should be amazing because what other thing is going on in our lives that our body is priming us to enjoy?” - Valda Ford
Connect with Valda!
Website: https://valdaford.com/
Email: valda@valdaford.com
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Orgasmic Birth Podcast: Pleasure in pregnancy, birth, and parenting. I believe pleasure is our birthright - from our sexuality, birth, parenting, and beyond, we can find pleasure when we create space for joy and intimacy in our lives. Join me to have deep conversations about breaking the taboos of Sexuality + Motherhood/Parenthood.
Listen to leading experts in sexuality, healing, and childbirth, as well as stories from new parents, doulas, doctors, midwives, and nurses. We will discuss how to positively prepare for childbirth and parenting by expanding love and intimacy in your life.
Unwinding Birth with Laura Hanstad
The Potent Birthing Body with Christine Mason
Why Pleasure Matters with Dr. Nan Wise
Similarities Between Preparing for an Orgasmic Birth and Sex with Debra Pascali-Bonaro
It’s a Business Doing Pleasure! with Alexandra Fine
VBAC Facts: Demystifying Common Misconceptions with Decades of Evidence with Jen Kamel
Preparing for a Positive Cesarean Birth with Nicole Heidbreder and Amir Niroumand
Tips for a Gentle Cesarean Birth with Debra Pascali-Bonaro
It's Not Pain, It’s Power with Carina Devi Part 2
It's Not Pain, It’s Power with Carina Devi Part 1
How To Have A Lot More Wow And A Lot Less Ow In Labor with Rachel Yellin
Psychedelic Cervix: Can Childbirth Evoke Pleasure Instead of Pain with Dr. Jenny Martin
5 Pillars of Pleasure with Lovisa Dahl
Beyond the Hospital: Reclaiming Birth Autonomy with Dr. Stuart Fischbein
ep. 89 - Use your BRAINS for Your Orgasmic Birth: Empowering Decisions and Joyful Journeys
ep. 88 - Empowering Your Birth: Sabine Dietz's Positive Journey in a Hospital Setting
ep. 87 - Insights into How and Why Informed Choice Matters
ep. 86 - Empower Your Birth: Transforming Trauma into Pleasure with Moran Liviani
ep. 85 - Lisa Strohdach's Journey to a Harmonious Breech Birth at Home
ep. 84 - Embracing Pleasure: Breaking the Taboo of Orgasmic Birth
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