Blaming - holding others responsible for our pain, discomfort, troubles or anything going badly in our lives. Extremely prevalent during divorce.
Everyone wants to be the "good one", the "innocent one" and for no one to perceive us as having caused the divorce or the unhappiness within ourselves or in the other person.
All very ego driven. And very normal and understandable because when we blame we feel less vulnerable, less like failures and we receive sympathy, support and validation.
But there are costs to the blame game and not just for the one you are blaming.
One of the biggest ones: It holds you in the past and in the pain.
So join me for this important conversation to help you heal and move forward now that your marriage or relationship is over.
Same strategies apply to issue with people in your family, at work etc.
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84: PART 1: Our healing begins with our Pain Story and our understanding of it
83: 6 things that will speed up or prevent your healing
82: Getting through divorce without feeling like you’re losing your mind, sanity and self-respect
81: Anger - why we need it and when it's too much
80: The Healing Heart: An Inward Journey
79: The heartache and peace when letting go of relationships that aren't working anymore
78: The Healing Benefits of a Circle of Women and Women's Retreats
77: When the love is strong AND divorce is still the only way forward, with Luci Lampe
75: Understand and overcome the fear you feel as you go through divorce and other life challenges
74: Finding inner peace and calm during the storm of divorce
73: Making the big decisions about your marriage, your family and your healing with Cindy Stibbard
72: How to have a good Valentine's Day while divorcing or going through a breakup
71: Understanding Karma - the good, the bad and the transformational healing available
70: A divorce is a perfect launch pad to create your dreams and this is how you do it
69: Embarking on a healing journey and feeling ready for new relationships
68: How to make Journaling one of your mindfulness practices this year
67: A loving Winter Solstice and Holiday message just for you
66: Reclaiming self trust after divorce with Emily Pennystone
65: Healing from Emotional Abuse and the 10 step self-discovery journey
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