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The Mother's Guide to Awakening: From Self-Sacrifice to Self-Realization

The mother has a distinct role. What is the specific sacrifice of good mothers?Myrna Young hosts Vanessa Bennett, author of "The Motherhood Myth," to explore the myths surrounding modern motherhood. They discuss the societal pressures that lead mothers to feel trapped or inadequate, focusing on breaking away from ideals of self-sacrifice and perfectionism. Vanessa highlights how patriarchal and capitalist systems influence women's roles and emphasizes the importance of reclaiming one's identity. The episode offers insights into shifting from survival mode to a path of personal and spiritual growth in motherhood. Join the conversation to redefine what it means to be a mother today.Vanessa delves into the psychological aspects of motherhood and how the generational pendulum swings have influenced current parenting styles, particularly focusing on the intense pressure many women face to be perfect mothers. The episode also touches on the lesser-known trinity wound—the witch, the sister, and the mother wound—and how healing these wounds is crucial for rebuilding community among women. Vanessa emphasizes that motherhood can be a pathway to personal growth rather than a sentence of self-sacrifice. In this episode Myrna and Vanessa will discuss: 0:02 Reclaiming Identity and Challenging the role of Good Mothers6:25 Generational Shifts in Parenting Styles and Emotional Involvement9:55 The Impact of Societal Systems on Motherhood and Self-Worth16:42 Healing the Trinity Wound for Women's Empowerment23:07 The Emotional Challenges and Connections of Motherhood24:25 Redefining Motherhood by Balancing Self-Care and Parenting29:48 Rediscovering Identity and Balance in Motherhood35:45 The Impact of Collectivistic Cultures on Childhood Trauma39:49 Redefining Motherhood and Embracing Radical Responsibility43:28 Exploring Motherhood Myths and Support SystemsResources Mentioned:Vanessa Bennett's Website: vanessabennett.comInstagram: @vanessas.bennettBook: The Motherhood Myth Partner with the Podcast Your brand is featured through:• A CEO or expert interview that positions you as a thought leader• Host-read pre-roll and mid-roll ads woven naturally into other episodes• And long-term visibility across our full media ecosystemTo explore a brand partnership, visit myhelps.us/partner.See this video on The Transform Your Mind YouTube Channel https://www.youtube.com/@MyhelpsUs/videosTo see a transcripts of this audio as well as links to all the advertisers on the show page https://myhelps.us/Follow Transform Your Mind on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/myrnamyoung/Follow Transform Your mind on Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100063738390977Please leave a rating and review on iTunes https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/transform-your-mind/id1144973094 https://podcast.feedspot.com/personal_development_podcasts/

Emotional Rebirth: The Power of Renewing the Mind

Struggling with controlling your thoughts? The battle for the Christian life is the battle for the Christian mind. In this episode, we dive deep into Romans 12:1-2 as host Myrna Young engages in a heartfelt conversation with Pamela Benner, author of "To Touch One Heart, Part One." Pamela shares her deeply personal journey from trauma and loss to healing and redemption. Drawing from her book, she likens her life to a tapestry woven with both beautiful and painful threads, underlining the theme of trusting God's design even when it isn't clear. The discussion centers around how Pamela managed to revisit painful past moments, connect them like dots on a tapestry, and find meaning and healing in what once seemed chaotic.Timestamp Summary0:00 Touching Hearts Through Life's Tapestry of Trauma and Healing1:52 Healing Through Forgiveness and Understanding Life's Tapestry10:10 Healing Through Writing and Overcoming Personal Struggles12:23 Healing Childhood Trauma Through Faith and Personal Growth14:33 Struggles With Religion, Family Expectations, and Childhood Trauma17:40 Healing Through Writing and Rediscovering Faith27:28 Healing Childhood Trauma Through Writing and Sharing StoriesResources *   Pamela Benner's Book: [To Touch One Heart, Part One] https://pamelabenner.com/)*   Purchase on [Amazon] https://www.amazon.com/Touch-One-Heart-Pamela-Benner/dp/B0G4878GC9 Partner with the Podcast Your brand is featured through:• A CEO or expert interview that positions you as a thought leader• Host-read pre-roll and mid-roll ads woven naturally into other episodes• And long-term visibility across our full media ecosystemTo explore a brand partnership, visit myhelps.us/partner.See this video on The Transform Your Mind YouTube Channel https://www.youtube.com/@MyhelpsUs/videosTo see a transcripts of this audio as well as links to all the advertisers on the show page https://myhelps.us/Follow Transform Your Mind on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/myrnamyoung/Follow Transform Your mind on Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100063738390977Please leave a rating and review on iTunes https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/transform-your-mind/id1144973094 https://podcast.feedspot.com/personal_development_podcasts/

Healing Childhood Trauma with Andrea Leeb | Why Emotional Numbness Happens

Many women shut down emotionally because of childhood trauma-and don't realize it until adulthood. In this conversation Andrea Leeb explains why emotional numbness happens and how to reconnect safely. Host Myrna Young engages with Andrea Leeb to explore the haunting, yet inspiring story captured in Andrea's memoir, "Such a Pretty Picture." Andrea's experiences as she endured unthinkable abuse at the hands of her father, the psychological impact it had on her mother, and her long journey to healing and self-discovery. Andrea opens up about the complexities of familial abuse, ensuing emotional battles, and the critical importance of confronting one's past for true healing.The conversation is an eye-opener to the realities of childhood sexual abuse and the various ways survivors cope with their trauma. Andrea sheds light on her personal struggle with shame, societal judgments, and the arduous process of reclaiming her power. Every aspect of her narrative underscores the resilience of the human spirit and the profound transformation that can occur when victims of abuse find their voice, connect with supportive communities, and share their stories. Andrea's experience is a testament to the possibility of finding joy and purpose beyond one's past and inspires a broader conversation about prevention and recovery from sexual abuse.Timestamp Summary0:02 Surviving Abuse and Finding Healing Through Confronting the Past3:31 Healing From Childhood Trauma and Overcoming Shame15:54 Overcoming Incest Trauma Through Advocacy and Storytelling21:01 Empowerment Through Speaking Out Against Abuse and Victimization25:34 Healing from Trauma and Seeking Self-Respect30:57 Healing From Childhood Trauma and Finding Purpose41:30 Healing From Childhood Trauma Through Storytelling and Support48:45 Healing From Trauma and Finding the Perfect Book Title51:09 Andrea Lieb's Mentorship and Book on Amazon54:04 Empowerment Through Overcoming Adversity, Transforming VictimhoodResources Andrea Lieb's Website: andrealebauthor.comInstagram: @AndreaLisaLeebPartner with the Podcast Your brand is featured through:• A CEO or expert interview that positions you as a thought leader• Host-read pre-roll and mid-roll ads woven naturally into other episodes• And long-term visibility across our full media ecosystemTo explore a brand partnership, visit myhelps.us/partner.See this video on The Transform Your Mind YouTube Channel https://www.youtube.com/@MyhelpsUs/videosTo see a transcripts of this audio as well as links to all the advertisers on the show page https://myhelps.us/Follow Transform Your Mind on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/myrnamyoung/Follow Transform Your mind on Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100063738390977Please leave a rating and review on iTunes https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/transform-your-mind/id1144973094 https://podcast.feedspot.com/personal_development_podcasts/

Monthly Theme: The Effects of Childhood Trauma in Our Adult Lives

In this solo episode, I would like to introduce the theme for January on The Transform Your Mind Podcast. I know we are almost at the end of the month, but I wanted to explain why I grouped these women together. Each of these interviews highlights the effects of childhood trauma in our adult lives.  And what’s been so powerful about these conversations is how trauma shows up—not only in pain—but in pleasure, intimacy, and identity.Pamela Madsen: Pamela Madsen is a noted sex therapist specializing in somatic healing. She is renowned for creating safe spaces for women to explore their pleasure and reclaim their sexual identities through transformative retreats and therapeutic work.Andrea Lee: Andrea Lee is a courageous survivor of childhood trauma. Her journey through years of therapy and healing has empowered her to help others through volunteering at a rape crisis center, providing support and guidance to women facing similar experiences of abuse.Vanessa Bennett: Vanessa Bennett challenges traditional beliefs about motherhood. Her work focuses on dismantling the "motherhood myth," urging mothers to balance identity and personal joy without succumbing to generational sacrifices of self-worth.So, when we look at these three conversations together, a pattern emerges:How we learned to experience pleasureHow we learned to disconnect from our bodiesHow we learned to abandon ourselves for othersResources:Listen to Pamela Madsen's episode: Transform Your Mind Podcast YouTubeMore episodes and stories on Spotify: Transform Your Mind Podcast SpotifyTune into this episode for inspiring tales of transformation and healing from those who have reshaped their lives beyond childhood trauma. Experience these powerful narratives on YouTube or Spotify and stay connected for more thought-provoking episodes of "Transform Your Mind to Transform Your Life." See this video on The Transform Your Mind YouTube Channel https://www.youtube.com/@MyhelpsUs/videosTo see a transcripts of this audio as well as links to all the advertisers on the show page https://myhelps.us/Follow Transform Your Mind on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/myrnamyoung/Follow Transform Your mind on Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100063738390977Please leave a rating and review on iTunes https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/transform-your-mind/id1144973094 https://podcast.feedspot.com/personal_development_podcasts/

Pleasure Unplugged: Exploring the Female Erotic Arc with Somatic Sex Educator

Host Myrna Young is joined by Pamela Madsen, a certified somatic sex educator, to explore enhancing female orgasms through somatic sexology. They delve into understanding women's arousal processes, the impact of cultural conditioning on pleasure, and how women can explore their full erotic potential. Pamela shares insights from her Back to Body retreats and underscores the importance of focusing on arousal and pleasure rather than just orgasms. With anecdotes and expert advice, this conversation sheds light on overcoming barriers to pleasure and reclaiming a fulfilling sexual identity.Throughout the conversation, Pamela explores how conventional misconceptions about sex and orgasms can impede genuine pleasure, emphasizing the importance of focusing on bodily experiences rather than climax alone. She introduces listeners to the intricate journey of achieving sexual fulfillment and healing, sharing captivating anecdotes of women transforming their intimate lives at her retreats. Key Takeaways:Understanding Arousal: Women need to focus on the complete arousal arc, emphasizing the importance of awakening the body and welcoming arousal before reaching climax.Somatic Sex Education: Somatic sex education involves engaging the body through sound, movement, and touch to reconnect with sexual pleasure beyond just the mind.Healing Through Experience: Personalized retreats and somatic practices can help women discover personal barriers to pleasure rooted in childhood experiences and social conditioning.Self-awareness and Communication: Successfully enhancing pleasure requires clear self-awareness, communication about individual needs, and an understanding of one's erotic identity.Reframing Orgasm: The journey to orgasm is more fulfilling when arousal and pleasure are prioritized, challenging the traditional focus on orgasm as the ultimate goal.Partner with the Podcast Today, brands don’t have an awareness problem—they have a trust problem. People are overwhelmed by ads. Let’s tell your story in a way that actually resonates.”Brands partner with the Transform Your Mind Podcast because this isn’t just advertising — it’s trusted influence.Your brand is featured through:• A CEO or expert interview that positions you as a thought leader• Host-read pre-roll and mid-roll ads woven naturally into other episodes• And long-term visibility across our full media ecosystemTo explore a brand partnership, visit myhelps.us/partner.See this video on The Transform Your Mind YouTube Channel https://www.youtube.com/@MyhelpsUs/videosTo see a transcripts of this audio as well as links to all the advertisers on the show page https://myhelps.us/Follow Transform Your Mind on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/myrnamyoung/Follow Transform Your mind on Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100063738390977Please leave a rating and review on iTunes https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/transform-your-mind/id1144973094 https://podcast.feedspot.com/personal_development_podcasts/