Man That Can with Lachlan Stuart

My Dad Said 4 Words That Changed How I Lead #675

Message me your 'Takeaways'.Most leadership advice tells you to be tougher. Push through. Grind it out. But after running 58 marathons in 58 days and coaching over 1,200 high-performing men, I have learned the most powerful leadership skill has nothing to do with endurance.In this video, I share the story of a 12-hour overnight walk through Brisbane that taught me two critical lessons about leading men. One about what happens when you do not set standards. And one about what happens when you simply invite someone in.My dad, recovering from prostate cancer surgery, drove two hours to join us. He planned to walk half an hour. He stayed for four. And the four words he said when he finally stopped changed how I coach, lead, and show up for the people in my life.If you are a man who feels like you are carrying everything alone, who has never actually invited someone into your world, this might be the most important leadership lesson you hear this year.Take the free Life Performance Scorecard: https://lifeperformance.scoreapp.com/Explore coaching programs: https://www.lachlanstuart.com.au/coachingConnect with me on Instagram: @lachlanstuartSubscribe for more: https://www.youtube.com/@LachlanJStuartThe Life Performance Framework (Core 4): Strong Body, Calm Mind, Clear Purpose, Confident Life. Learn where you stand across all four areas with the free Scorecard above.Support the showTake the "Life Performance" Scorecard: HERE Follow Lachlan:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lachlanstuart/YouTube: https://youtube.com/@lachlanstuart91Website: https://themanthatcanproject.com/Newsletter: https://lachlan-stuart-tmtcp.ck.page/profileDo Something Today To Be Better For Tomorrow

Why You're Crushing It at Work But Failing at Home (The Truth About Hard Conversations) #674

Message me your 'Takeaways'.Why can you give tough feedback at work but avoid that one conversation with your partner?Life performance coach Lachlan Stuart shares the story of the money conversation he avoided with his wife Amy for months—and what finally made him say it. Spoiler: the fear was worse than the truth.In this episode:- The pattern: why high-performing men are surgical at work but silent at home- The Delay Distortion: how your brain either romanticizes or catastrophizes conversations the longer you wait- The internal conversation that changed Lachlan's career trajectory- A client story: the question that got a marriage back on track in 3 months- Practical steps to have hard conversations early—before they become crisesThis episode explores the Calm Mind pillar of Lachlan's Core 4 framework: Strong Body, Calm Mind, Clear Purpose, Confident Life.Take the free Life Performance Scorecard: https://lachlanstuart.com/scorecardConnect with Lachlan:→ Website: https://www.lachlanstuart.com.au/→ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lachlanstuart/→ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LachlanJStuartLachlan Stuart is a life performance coach and keynote speaker based in Brisbane who has worked with 1,200+ high-performing men. He completed 58 marathons in 58 consecutive days and hosts The Man That Can podcast.Support the showTake the "Life Performance" Scorecard: HERE Follow Lachlan:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lachlanstuart/YouTube: https://youtube.com/@lachlanstuart91Website: https://themanthatcanproject.com/Newsletter: https://lachlan-stuart-tmtcp.ck.page/profileDo Something Today To Be Better For Tomorrow

Feeling Stuck? The Hidden Danger of a 'Good Enough' Life #673

Message me your 'Takeaways'.The most dangerous trap isn't failure—it's success that's just good enough.In this episode, I break down what I call The Comfort Trap: the silent erosion that happens when life isn't bad enough to change, but isn't good enough to feel alive. I share my own story of walking away from six years of business to move to Nashville, the internal battle I faced, and the one question that changed everything.If you've ever woken up asking "Is this all there is?" even though your life looks good on paper—this episode is for you.WHAT WE COVER:• What The Comfort Trap actually is (and why it's more dangerous than failure)• The 3 stages of erosion most men don't see coming• Warning signs you're stuck in The Comfort Trap• The question that helped me decide to take the leap• How The Comfort Trap connects to Clear Purpose in my Core 4 framework• The Resilience Loop: practical steps to escapeRESOURCES:• Take the FREE Life Performance Scorecard: https://lifeperformance.scoreapp.com/• 30-day Life-Performance Reset :  https://stan.store/lachlanstuart/p/the-30day-life-performance-reset-for-men • Connect on Instagram: @lachlanstuartABOUT THE HOST:Lachlan Stuart is a life performance coach helping high-performing men aged 30-50 build lives they're proud of. Known for completing 58 marathons in 58 days, Lachlan brings real experience and practical frameworks to the conversation.If this episode resonates, please leave a review—it helps other men find this show.Support the showTake the "Life Performance" Scorecard: HERE Follow Lachlan:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lachlanstuart/YouTube: https://youtube.com/@lachlanstuart91Website: https://themanthatcanproject.com/Newsletter: https://lachlan-stuart-tmtcp.ck.page/profileDo Something Today To Be Better For Tomorrow

Men Need Responsibility, Not Less of It (Controversial Truth) #672

Message me your 'Takeaways'.What if the goals you're avoiding aren't about lacking confidence but lacking conviction?In this episode, I'm sharing frameworks from my Instagram series "Lachie's Learnings" that explain why: → Your strong body is the foundation for a clear mind → Confidence doesn't arrive first, it follows conviction → Men are wired to grow when they're needed (responsibility isn't burden, it's purpose) → Anti-goals matter more than goals (what I refused to sacrifice for 58 marathons)If you're a man who wants to show up for your family while still chasing what you're capable of, this will shift how you approach 2026.The Core 4: Strong Body | Calm Mind | Clear Purpose | Confident LifeFollow @lachlanstuart on Instagram for daily "Lachie's Learnings"Support the showTake the "Life Performance" Scorecard: HERE Follow Lachlan:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lachlanstuart/YouTube: https://youtube.com/@lachlanstuart91Website: https://themanthatcanproject.com/Newsletter: https://lachlan-stuart-tmtcp.ck.page/profileDo Something Today To Be Better For Tomorrow

Why Men don’t Journal and Why they Should #671

Message me your 'Takeaways'.Most men don’t avoid journaling because it doesn’t work.They avoid it because they think it’s not for them.In this episode, Lachlan Stuart breaks down why that belief nearly cost him clarity, resilience, and emotional control and how journaling became the tool that carried him through 58 consecutive marathons from Alaska to Brisbane.You’ll learn:Why thoughts feel heavier when they stay in your headHow writing slows thinking and restores controlWhy high-performing men are managing, not thrivingHow journaling builds a calm mind under pressureThis isn’t therapy.It’s a control panel.Links: Speaking: https://www.lachlanstuart.com.au/speakingScorecard: https://lachlan-p0moailx.scoreapp.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lachlanstuart/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lachlan-stuartmtc/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LachlanJStuartSupport the showTake the "Life Performance" Scorecard: HERE Follow Lachlan:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lachlanstuart/YouTube: https://youtube.com/@lachlanstuart91Website: https://themanthatcanproject.com/Newsletter: https://lachlan-stuart-tmtcp.ck.page/profileDo Something Today To Be Better For Tomorrow