What's Your 1 THING?

At Your Funeral, What Will People Say?

This week, I tried to answer one of life’s biggest questions: What’s the meaning of all this? After spending seven days exploring spirituality, connection, and the stories people shared with me, I realized something—this isn’t a topic you figure out in a week. It’s one you feel your way into.So today, while I take real time to process everything I’ve learned, I’m pulling an episode from the vault. It begins with one question that hit me hard after attending a funeral:What’s the one thing you want people to say at your funeral?In this episode, I talk about life’s distractions, the habits that pull us away from what matters, and the wake-up calls that remind us of what’s actually important. It’s raw, honest, and maybe exactly the pause button you need today.Think of this as the space between my dive into spirituality and what’s coming next—and a chance for you to reflect on your own answers before I return with everything I’ve learned.

What Is Spirituality… and Can You Actually Find It In 7 Days?

What is spirituality?For most of my life, that question has made my brain short-circuit. Religion never clicked. Energy and vibrations felt too abstract. And any time someone asked what I believed in, I had one go-to line:“I stopped answering questions I don’t have the answer to.”But lately… I’ve been thinking:I want to feel connected to something bigger than myself.I want to understand what people mean when they talk about guidance, intuition, or feeling part of something more than their own stress and thoughts.So this week, I'm running a 7-day experiment to find out:What is spirituality — and how do you actually find it?No doctrines.No pressure to believe anything.No rules.Just curiosity, honesty, and direct experience.In this episode, I share:my personal history with religion, skepticism, and sciencewhy spirituality has never made sense to mewhy I finally feel ready to explore itwhat I hope to feel, understand, or discoverthe one question I’m asking people all week:“What does spirituality mean to you — and what does it feel like?”If you’ve ever felt disconnected… skeptical… curious… or secretly wished you felt what other people seem to feel so naturally — this one’s for you.Let’s see if spirituality is something you find… or something you feel.If you have an opinion on the matter, I want to hear from you! Send me a voice note to: whatsyour1thing@gmail.com Or set up a time to talk with me live during my office hours here!!

Which of These 5 Habits Are You Neglecting? (Most People Miss 2–3)

Are you actually taking care of your life… or are you just telling yourself you are?In this episode, Dr. Len Lopez breaks down the STEPS framework: a 2-minute daily audit that reveals exactly where your physical, mental, and spiritual habits are slipping.S.T.E.P.S stands for:Sleep: Are you going to bed feeding your mind something good?Think: Are you speaking to yourself with intention… or letting negativity lead?Eat: Are you fueling your body or running on convenience and impulse?Physical: Did you move today? Even a little?Spirit: Are you working your inner muscles or skipping them entirely?Dr. Len compares life to being a chef: you choose what you feed your body, mind, and spirit. And if the recipe tastes bad… it’s on you.We talk about overstimulation, dopamine addiction, the invisible habits parents pass to their kids, and how one simple visual tracker can transform your consistency.By the end of this episode, you’ll know exactly which step (or two) you’ve been neglecting — and how to fix it starting today.Don't forget to download the app and check out all Dr. Len has to offer! Link to his website here!

I Tried to Build Consistency With Zero Stakes… Here’s What Happened

I spent seven days trying to stay consistent… with zero accountability, zero stakes, and zero external pressure. And what I learned surprised me.In today’s final recap of the Consistency Challenge, I break down the biggest lessons from each day — the ones that actually helped and the ones that fell apart fast:How to break your goals down using first principlesThe daily schedule printout that saved my weekWhy “make it laughably small” actually worksHow tiny cues can trigger big habitsWhy visible progress matters more than motivationAnd the mindset shift that made everything easier: You vs. You (not the internet)So… can you build consistency without stakes?Honestly, I’m not sure most of us can — and that’s exactly why this experiment matters.If you’re juggling work, family, and the pressure to “be better,” this episode will help you see consistency in a new, much simpler way.Find your one thing this week — and let’s keep going.

Day 6: Consistency Isn’t About Streaks… It’s About Recovery

Today’s episode wasn’t supposed to happen.I was ready to throw in the towel. Pop in here and say "oh well, I tried, but this is always what happens..."Before inviting everyone into my pity party I figured I should at least check and see what I was "supposed" to do today for my consistency challenge. It was talk about failure. And not just about it, but what it's not. It has nothing to do with failing, it all has to do with not getting back up. The truth is that consistency isn’t streaks — it’s what you do after you miss. You can learn more about a person on how they over come failure than how they do when they win. In this raw, no music, no editing, recorded in a Nissan Juke kind of episode, I talk through:Why missing one block isn’t failureThe trap of tying your identity to your streakHow to reset after a rough dayWhy “you vs. you yesterday” is the only metric that mattersA listener story from the phone challenge that hit me hardAnd why tomorrow’s recap will be the most important day of the entire experimentIf you’re trying something new…If you’ve fallen off the wagon…If you’ve been beating yourself up for not being perfect…This one’s for you.You’re not a failure.You’re in the middle of the process.And we finish this thing tomorrow, together.