Some of the most popular episodes on the podcast have been about working with sex in the context of Couples Therapy. There are so many dimensions to explore beyond the physical aspect of what is going on sexually. In this episode Ian Kerner talks about a range of ways to explore sexuality in more depth. Considerations include where clients fall in the life span, cultural, family of origin, medications, psychological issues, internalized beliefs interpersonal and relational issues.
Also during this episode we talk about using a science based approach, the PLISSIT model, low desire, mismatch libido, erotic temperament, sexual function issues, and the willingness window.
Ian Kerner, PhD, LMFT is a licensed psychotherapist and nationally recognized sexuality counselor who specializes in sex therapy, couples therapy and working with individuals on a range of relational issues. Ian is regularly quoted as an expert in various media, with appearances on The Today Show, The Dr. Oz Show, and NPR. He lectures frequently on topics related to sex and relationships.
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Check out Ian's website at iankerner.com
Ian's Books
She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman
He Comes Next: The Thinking Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Man
173: Betrayal Recovery with Lora Cheadle
172: Deepening Our Work with Clients and Selves with Dr. Sabrina N'Diaye
Terry Real on Relational Life Therapy
Bill Doherty on the Ethical Lives of Clients
169: Somatic Experiencing and Couples with Abi Blakeslee
168: Neurobiology and Relationships with Juliane Taylor Shore
167: The Science of Psychotherapy with Richard Hill and Matthew Dahlitz
166: Harville Hendrix and Helen LaKelly Hunt In The Space-Between
165: Facing Adversity as a Therapist with Wesley Little
164: Healing the Trauma from Supremacy Culture with Shirani Pathak
163: Self-Esteem and Boundaries part 2 with Shane Birkel
162: Self-Esteem and Boundaries part 1 with Shane Birkel
161: Healing After Divorce with Kristy Gaisford and Jerry Sander
160: Feedback Informed Treatment and Couples with Beth Irias
159: Infidelity Recovery with Talal Alsaleem
158: Being Bold in Couples Therapy with Pam Staples
157: Internal Family Systems and Couples with Liz Phillips
156: Joining Through the Truth in RLT with Shane Birkel
155: Developmental and Relational Trauma with Rick Butts
154: Elliott Connie on Solution Focused Brief Therapy and Couples
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