Is your adoption journey turning out differently than you imagined? You had so much love to give, but now you feel ashamed and bewildered by your lack of compassion.
You may be experiencing blocked care—a self-protective mechanism in your nervous system that makes it difficult to connect with your child and maintain compassion. When it happens, it’s like your heart seems to have left the relationship. But the good news is you are not a bad parent. You can heal from blocked care, and compassion can be rekindled in your heart.
Written by @lisacqualls and @melissacorkum_ who have themselves overcome blocked care, the book, Reclaim Compassion, answers the questions, “How did this happen, and will it ever get better?” You’ll recognize yourself in the honest stories from the authors and other parents and come to realize that you’re not at all alone.
Rooted in faith and backed by neuroscience, this practical and powerful guide offers a simple step-by-step process for reclaiming compassion for your child and yourself.
This week, enjoy an audio preview of Chapter 1.
Click here to download a transcript for this episode.
Relevant LinksReclaim Compassion Website
#106 [Mentor Moment] How do you celebrate your child’s adoption day?
#105 A Birth Mother’s Story of Adoption Reunion with Adrian Collins
#104 [Mentor Moment] Should I adopt out of birth order?
#103 When the Wait is Longer Than You Expect (A COVID Update from Lifeline Children’s Services)
#102: The Importance of Keeping Siblings Together with Sue Badeau
#101: Creating Adoption-Sensitive Classrooms with Joelle Broberg
#100: Surprise Guest Hosts and a Celebratory Giveaway
#99: Finding the Silver lining in Your Child’s Challenging Behaviors
#98: [Mentor Moment] I’m freaked out about this school year. Help!
#97: Building a Family by Faith with Maria Hansen-Quine
#96: Race and Adoption Panel
#95: An Adoptee’s Experience with Loss and Fear with Sara Easterly
#94: Resetting the Nervous System for Felt Safety
#93: Recognizing and Overcoming Post-Adoption Depression with Amy Callahan
#92: [Mentor Moment] How do we determine the appropriate level of interaction with birth family?
#91: Ethical Orphan Care and Adoption with Whitney Runyon
#90: [Mentor Moment] How do you recover on days when a child has a meltdown?
#89: A Conversation About Race with Sue Badeau
#88: The Connected Parent by Dr. Karyn Purvis and Lisa Qualls
#87: The Impact of Prenatal Trauma on Children with Stacey Gagnon
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