Is your adoption journey turning out differently than you imagined? You had so much love to give, but now you feel ashamed and bewildered by your lack of compassion.
You may be experiencing blocked care—a self-protective mechanism in your nervous system that makes it difficult to connect with your child and maintain compassion. When it happens, it’s like your heart seems to have left the relationship. But the good news is you are not a bad parent. You can heal from blocked care, and compassion can be rekindled in your heart.
Written by @lisacqualls and @melissacorkum_ who have themselves overcome blocked care, the book, Reclaim Compassion, answers the questions, “How did this happen, and will it ever get better?” You’ll recognize yourself in the honest stories from the authors and other parents and come to realize that you’re not at all alone.
Rooted in faith and backed by neuroscience, this practical and powerful guide offers a simple step-by-step process for reclaiming compassion for your child and yourself.
This week, enjoy an audio preview of Chapter 1.
Click here to download a transcript for this episode.
Relevant LinksReclaim Compassion Website
#86: [Mentor Moment] How do you balance the needs of different children in your home?
#85: The Enneagram and Adoption with Jeff and Beth McCord
#84: [Mentor Moment] Where did your biggest support system come from?
#83: Infertility and Loss with Erin Gaeng
#82: Helping Our Kids Process Loss and Disappointment During the Quarantine
#81: Adoption and Foster Care Book Reviews Just For You with Lanaya Graham
#80: Pandemic Schooling Advice from a School Counselor
#79: Exploring the Complexities of Transracial Adoption with Tara VanderWoude
#78: [Mentor Moment] How do I overcome my body’s trauma response?
#77: Accepting Our Kids Without Giving Up on Them with Eileen Devine
#76: Tips for Staying Calm and Connected During a Pandemic
#75: How a Former Neo-Nazi Family Embraced Transracial Adoption
[Refresh Rewind] A Transracial Adoptee’s Thoughts on Growing Up Black in a White Family with Derek Hamer
#74: [Mentor Moment] My son’s apologies feel empty. Any ideas?
#73: Preparing Older Kids for Adulthood with Kris Kittle
#72: [Mentor Moment] My son’s behavior has drastically changed since we adopted another child. Help!
#71: Creating Daily Practices for Strong Family Relationships with Beth Guckenberger
#70: [Mentor Moment] What Do We Do When Kids Don’t Care About Consequences?
#69: How to Talk to Your Child About Addiction with Kathy Stone
#68: [Mentor Moment] How Do I Help My Nonverbal Toddler Communicate?
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