This week, we get our sexy on! After months of traumatic news, we decide to spend some time aligning with what makes us feel good about ourselves. We start by looking at the disappearance of Craigslist personal ads and ask what that means for one’s search for sexiness and closeness, specifically for queer identities. We then share some of our personal remedies for maintaining that sexy feeling and explore how music can enhance the autoerotic. We jam out to some of our favorite song of seduction from K.D. Lang to Beyoncé to Cardi B. and explain what about them make us feel our best.
Discussed This Week:
The Magicians (SyFy)
“We need to talk about how Grindr is affecting gay men’s health” (Jack Turban, Vox)
“‘I Am Super Straight and I Prefer You be Too’: Constructions of Heterosexual Masculinity in Online Personal Ads for “Straight” Men Seeking Sex With Men” (Chelsea Reynolds, Sage Journals)
“Missed Connections: Craigslist Drops Personal Ads Because of Sex Trafficking Bill” (Niraj Chokshi, The New York Times)
“A Field Guide to Getting Lost” (Rebecca Solnit, Penguin Books)
“Sexiness: Rituals, Revisions and Reconstructions” (Tamara Santibanez, Discipline Press)
Still Processing Presents: The Autoerotica Mix (Spotify)
We Wouldn't Leave Kanye, But Should We?
We're Here For Your Anger, Jessica Walter
We’re Queer - and Apparently So Is Everybody Else
We Unpack Black Male Privilege
We Watch Whiteness
We Talk BeyChella
We Celebrate the REAL MLK Day
We’re Maxed Out, You’re Maxed Out, Everybody Is Maxed Out
We Love Aunties
We Don’t Love Everything Made By Black People and That’s OK?
We Paint the Town Obama
We Want To Know What Love Is
We Take the 15:17 All the Way to Pyeongchang
We Sink Our Claws Into "Black Panther" with Ta-Nehisi Coates
We'll See You Tomorrow
We Don't Know Where We Are
We're Still Here For Janet
We Have a Right To Be Mad
We Have a Theory About Oprah
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