Whose love did you crave most growing up – your mother’s or your father’s? And who did you feel you had to be for that person?
Answering this question will not only help you understand how your identity was shaped, you will start to see just why you do the things you do. You will learn why you are the way you are now. The patterns that you fall into and the standards that you hold for yourself will all start to make sense. Because underneath all of this live six fundamental human needs that you are constantly striving to meet.
In this episode of the Real Breakthrough Series on the Tony Robbins Podcast we’re taking you back to Date With Destiny, where Tony is helping Akila overcome the subconscious boundaries that are holding her back from the life she desires.
Tony begins by asking Akila that critical question: Whose love did you crave most as a child? Because every single one of us has developed a model of the world based on the source of love we craved most growing up. This is the what influences the way we think and the way we act. This is what impacts the way we filter information. And this is what forms the entire way in which we experience the world.
Tony shows us that we all create certain rule structures to support our needs. And he shows us that by uncovering our top two needs, we can begin to gain more perspective on our lives. Because when we are able to take a more objective, enlightened look at ourselves, we are able to find the way to breakthrough and break free of what is holding us back.
How to free yourself of hurt, anger and expectations | Offering the gift of forgiveness
The mindset you need for a truly magnificent life | Knowing the gift of grace
The most important element of a passionate and soulful relationship | Giving the gift of presence
Could tragedy be your greatest classroom? | Discovering the gift of growth
How to cultivate awareness and caring | Expanding the gift of consciousness
Creating a community to call home | Discovering the gift of connection
How to live in absolute abundance | Finding the gift of gratitude
How to overcome the most unfathomable odds | Unleashing the gift of drive
How to have the emotional strength to handle anything | Mastering the gift of emotion
The 10 Gifts of Life | Introducing the Force for Good season of The Tony Robbins Podcast
Cracking the code on company culture | How to turn lukewarm customers into raving fans, and disengaged employees into high-performing teams
Perfect is the enemy of good | Waze founder Uri Levine on gaining momentum to create, fund and scale a successful company
Part 2: The most successful founder in history | Tony interviews Bill Gross, founder of Idealab, about his strategies for success and vision for the future
The most successful unicorn founder in history | Bill Gross shares the top 3 things he’s learned from growing 7 companies from zero to $1 billion
Democratizing luxury | How Rent the Runway changed the way we shop and grew to a $1B company – an interview with co founder Jenny Fleiss
From hot dog cart to hospitality empire | How Danny Meyer, founder of Union Square Hospitality Group, became the greatest restaurateur NYC has ever seen
Masters of Business | An introduction to the new business season from Tony Robbins
Fear will destroy you or drive you | Tony, world-champion triathlete Siri Lindley, and Free Solo’s Sanni McCandless on how fear can fuel your fire
Mike Tyson’s road to a second chance | The polarizing highs and lows of one of the most thrilling, controversial and celebrated boxers of all time
Conor McGregor, the undeniable force | Tony talks to “The Notorious” about his unwavering certainty, ruthless mindset and how he became the king of combat sports
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