Most women are very good at giving others grace. And yet, we are very tough on ourselves.
In moments of doubt, we talk to ourselves in a really negative way. Almost as if we’re on a mission to uncover everything that’s wrong with us—especially when we’re going after something big.
But that’s not how we would talk to a friend, is it? So, what if we treated ourselves with the kindness and generosity we give others? What if we started being a best friend to ourselves?
On this episode of Career Confessions, I explain how to counter negative self-talk by being your own best friend, challenging you to be so infectiously positive that nothing stands in your way.
I explore why we take our strengths for granted and diminish our own accomplishments, reminding you that shining a light on your gifts can make a big difference in someone else’s life.
Listen in for insight on reframing the what ifs that hold you back and learn how to take the grace you give others and channel it internally!
Key Takeaways
Why we take our strengths for granted and diminish our own accomplishments
How shining a light on your gifts can make a difference in someone else’s life
Why you should speak to yourself as your own best friend in moments of doubt
The power in having someone to vent to when you’re being tough on yourself
How to train your brain to be so infectiously positive that nothing stands in your way
How to take the kindness and grace we offer to others and channel it internally
What happens when we stop blaming our circumstances for not living our dreams
How to reframe the what ifs that are keeping you from sharing your gifts
Why it’s selfish to hide your gifts and talents from the world
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