Jessica Turner is the author of the brand-new book Stretched Too Thin: How Working Moms Can Lose the Guilt, Work Smarter, and Thrive and the creator of The Mom Creative, a blog “all about creating a life well-crafted, which means different things on different days.”
Jessica’s mother was a great role model, a mentor, and the strongest person Jessica ever met. Stretched Too Thin is dedicated to her, and when you listen to Jessica talk about her strength, it’s no surprise.
She persevered through a difficult childhood, then set out to do something more for her own family. So she worked full-time, but that didn’t stop her from dedicating time and love to her children and husband.
Although everyone isn’t lucky enough to have had such a great role model in their life, Jessica has some sage words of encouragement: “You have the opportunity to be that person to someone else – and what a powerful opportunity that is!
“Every day, we have the opportunity to impact people with the way we speak to them, with the kindness that we show to them, and with having them be seen just as they are.”
Because the most important work that any of us does is the work we do with other people. And even if you weren’t shown that as a kid, you still have the opportunity to invest in other people, every single day.
Are You Stretched Too Thin?
Jessica has a 9-5 job, her entrepreneurial endeavors, and a family. Plus, she has to make time for herself. That’s simply too much to focus on all at the same time.
We too often fall into the fallacy that we have to be everything all the time – but that’s just not possible. We have to create boundaries between the different roles in our lives, and in doing this, we give ourselves the room to be fully present in whatever role we are in at any given moment.
We also have to understand our priorities. We’re all juggling a lot of balls, but some of them are rubber and some of them are glass. If we drop a glass ball, it might crack. And if we continue to drop a glass ball, it will shatter. Your health and your family are glass balls – so when it comes down to it, those have to be your biggest priorities.
And when we view our lives through that lens, it helps us get clarity on where to invest our time. To help you with this, Jessica created a free time tracker that you can download at fringehours.com/tracker. She suggests writing down everything you do for a week so that you can get an objective look at where you are investing your time and then adjust from there.
Because we have to, as the title of Jessica’s book suggests, work smarter to thrive.
“The real man smiles in trouble, gathers strength from distress, and grows brave by reflection.” –Thomas Paine
Ep. 135 - Epic Fatherhood: How to Hone The Dad Edge - with Larry Hagner
Ep. 134 - Change Your Behavior, Change Your Life - with Tony Grebmeier
Ep. 132 - Everything is Better as a Team: From SEAL Teams to the Business World - with Flynn Cochran
Ep. 131 - Movement is Life - with Jeff Moreno
Ep. 130 - Learning at the Speed of Love - with Dr. Carrie Rose
Ep. 129 - Being Chief - with Rick Miller
Ep. 128 - Start, Love, Repeat: Choosing to Trust & Love in Your Relationship - with Dorcas Cheng-Tozun
Ep. 127 - Being Different Makes the Biggest Difference - with Christopher Lochhead
Ep. 126 - What Have You Been Given Breath to Do? - with Cara Miller
Ep. 125 - Multiplying Your Understanding of Purpose & Passion - with Cara Miller
Ep. 124 - Designing Your Life: Lessons from One of Stanford’s Most Popular Classes - with Dave Evans
Ep. 123 - White Collar Warriors: What We Can Learn From Army Rangers & Navy SEALs - with Bill Hart
Ep. 122 - Grit, Gratitude and Beating Chains - with Rusty Labuschagne
Ep. 121 - The Art of Coming Back - with Jordan Harbinger
Ep. 120 - Leading from Purpose - with Nick Craig
Ep. 119 - Start, Love, Repeat: Supporting an Entrepreneurial Spouse Through The Struggle - with Dorcas Cheng-Tozun
Ep. 118 - Recovering from Addiction & Sharing Our Stories to Empower Others - with Jason Coombs
Ep. 117 - Cracking The Legacy Code & Creating a R.I.C.H. Experience - with Armando Cruz
Ep. 116 - Get Your Foot in the Door & Figure it Out - with Jesse Itzler
Create your
podcast in
minutes
It is Free
The Meaningful Life with Andrew G. Marshall
Heal, Survive & Thrive!
A Voice In The Darkness
The Jordan Harbinger Show
BPLUS بیپلاس پادکست فارسی خلاصه کتاب