In the previous episodes I have talked about festive perfectionism and festive burnout – basically from doing all the things, and trying to do them perfectly.
This week, I want to continue the theme by thinking about comparison culture at Christmas.
If you feel upset after you’ve seen other people’s pretty Christmas photos, with their kids in matching pyjamas and being all smiles in front of the tree, whilst your kids are murdering each other in the background in your own house, and you draw a deep sigh about the chaos, then this is for you.
I’ll keep it brief, as I know you have a lot on in December. My operations manager and I were reflecting on that over text message this week, with her saying ‘December is a joke’ and me replying ‘December is a joke that isn’t funny’.
I’ve connected with several people through my act of rebellion against a gingerbread house in a recent Instagram reel – yes, I gave it the finger. No, I’m not a Grinch. Go check it out, for the lolz, as the kids say.
The overwhelm is REAL. I’ve noticed that part of that overwhelm and perfectionistic pressure around the holidays is also linked to comparison culture. I was recently interviewed about perfectionism in the Christmas dossier for Psychologies magazine, so you can check that out too for more inspiration around how to let go of perfectionism at Christmas.
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Festive Perfectionism - Finding Joy in the Imperfections
Avoiding Festive Burnout by Stopping People Pleasing
Permission to Look After Yourself When You’re Ill
Humour, Resilience, and the Rollercoaster of Motherhood With Emily-Jane Clark
Good Enough is not Failure
How low is Your Energy Battery?
Morning Routines - What to do Instead of Putting Pressure on Yourself
People Pleasing, Saying no and Setting Boundaries
Embracing Impostor Syndrome - With Jill Stoddard
Permission to Make Progress Over Perfection
Nourishing Yourself Through Nutrition, With Thalia Pellegrini
Being Mindful and Noticing : Bonus Episode
Letting go of Overworking and People Pleasing With Natalie Costa
Making More Progress by Letting Go of Perfect
Connecting More Deeply With Yourself And With What Matters To You
Don’t Ask, Don’t Get
The Societal Pressure Of Perfection With Thomas Curran
Soothing Shame With Compassion and Connection
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