My former brothers-in-law would, when playing Bridge together, name themselves "team risk." They bid aggressively, played loosely, and had fun. The results were sometimes disastrous, but often winning. Bridge is just a game, and life is not at all a game, yet, what would it mean for you to be part of a "team risk?" What risks would you be willing to take if you were part of team that had your back? How would it feel to live a little more on the edge? How do we manage our anxiety when we're out there on the ledge?