with Special Guest
Lori Merrill-Fink
LORI’S CORE DESIRED FEELINGS
Based on the work for Danielle LaPorte’s The Desire Map
(Choose your own.)
So to feel what I want to feel, I consciously choose practices that generate those feelings.
BODY MIND SPIRIT/SOUL
Movement Meditation Community
Pleasure Script Flipping Gratitude
Whole foods Affirmations Service
Quality sleep Solitude Talking to God
Lots of water Being in Nature
TAKE-AWAYS aka: NUGGETS
So here I am, a normal person, keeping it real. Doing my best to stay in flow, flip the script, stay open. A diagnosis cuts through all the BS, so my pilgrimage has led me to some essential truths, which I am doing my best to LIVE every day. Many may sound familiar to you:
To journey without being changed
Is to be a nomad.
To change without journeying
Is to be a chameleon.
To journey and be transformed by the journey
Is to be a pilgrim.
~Mark Nepo
The Book of Awakening
(cancer survivor)
James Cameron:
Hope is not a strategy.
Luck is not a factor.
Fear is not an option.
The Guest House
This being human is a guest house.
Every morning a new arrival.
A joy, a depression, a meanness,
some momentary awareness comes
as an unexpected visitor.
Welcome and entertain them all!
Even if they are a crowd of sorrows,
who violently sweep your house
empty of its furniture,
still, treat each guest honorably.
He may be clearing you out
for some new delight.
The dark thought, the shame, the malice.
meet them at the door laughing and invite them in.
Be grateful for whatever comes.
because each has been sent
as a guide from beyond.
We are slowed down sound and light waves, a walking bundle of frequencies tuned into the cosmos. We are souls dressed up in sacred biochemical garments and our bodies are the instruments through which our souls play music.
~Albert Einstein
Today I asked my body what she needed,
Which is a big deal
Considering my journey of
Not Really Asking That Much.
I thought she might need more water.
Or protein.
Or greens.
Or yoga.
Or supplements.
Or movement.
But as I stood in the shower
Reflecting on her stretch marks,
Her roundness where I would like flatness,
Her softness where I would like firmness,
All those conditioned wishes
That form a bundle of
Never-Quite-Right-Ness,
She whispered very gently:
Could you just love me like this?
Author: Hollie Holden
Excerpt from Mary Oliver’s Wild Geese
You do not have to be good.
You do not have to walk on your knees
for a hundred miles through the desert repenting.
You only have to let the soft animal of your body
love what it loves.
“New Moon Blessing” from Tanya Markul’s “The She Book”:
May you remember your ability to choose what is deeply nourishing.
May you ignite your power to make choices that align with your soul.
May you take action in the name of your authentic fire.
May you find the courage to heal, be free, and grow.
LINKS AND RESOURCES FOR LISTENERS
Lori’s “Survive & Thrive” Pinterest Board
https://pin.it/ibucbrch4mj6an
Awake at the Wheel playlist (in Spotify):
https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6Sm4Y6iEmPLOlFSGN4F8kD
Recommended Books:
Your Body Believes Every Word You Say- Barbara Hoberman Levine
You Are the Placebo- Joe Dispenza
Prayer is Good Medicine- Larry Dossey, MD
Reinventing the Body, Resurrecting the Soul- Deepak Chopra, MD
How Healing Works- Wayne Jonas, MD
The Desire Map- Danielle LaPorte
Crazy, Sexy Cancer- Kris Carr
The Book of Awakening- Mark Nepo
The 22 Non-Negotiable Laws of Wellness- Greg Anderson
Dying to be Me- Anita Moorjani
The Cancer Whisperer: Finding Courage, Direction, and the Unlikely Gifts of Cancer- Sophie Sabbage
Everyday Strength: A Cancer Patient’s Guide to Spiritual Survival- Randy Becton
Change Me Prayers: The Hidden Power of Spiritual Surrender- Tosha Silver
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