Cultivating Resilient Teens Podcast
Kids & Family:Parenting
Hey Parents,
Does your teenage daughter feel like she has to choose between being liked or being respected?
Welcome back to the Cultivating Resilient Teens Podcast where we’re going to offer a “Short, Sweet and Spot On” episode, as listener Me and Xoxo, shared in a recent iTunes podcast review.
Thank you, Me and Xoxo, for taking the time to share your thoughts and for being part of the Cultivating Resilient Teens community!
Okay, let’s get to it, because I want to clear up the myth that your daughter has to choose between being liked or respected.
One of my clients shared that a ‘Who are You?’ style check list has been going around social media.
The list had multiple boxes where you check off things you’ve done or that apply to you personally.
And although it didn’t seem like that big of a deal at first, my client not only felt like she was pigeon-holing herself into a misconstrued persona, but there was a whole lot of judgment coming out of this seemingly harmless activity.
My client understood that she had the choice to participate or pass, but she said the social pressure felt really intense.
And one of her friends teased her by saying … “Just fill it out, I mean, what do you have to hide?
Ah, I’m here to tell you, these tricky social situations aren’t easy to navigate for teenage girls.
What You Can Do Instead
As we talked about in last week’s podcast Ep – 26 How to Support Your Daughter When Her Friendships Are Falling Apart
Your daughter’s style of communication matters:
And, if your daughter’s put in a situation where she feels pressured to share personal information that that seems intrusive and downright uncomfortable, we want to equip her with the tools that’ll help her stay confident, in her integrity, and strengthen her resilience.
3 Insights to Ace Tricky Social Situations
In order to prevent or de-escalate the drama that comes from tricky social situations, we’re going to share 3 Insights that will help your daughter tap into her personal power.
Because even though the “What do you have to hide?” situation seemed playful, my client didn’t want to pigeonhole herself into a certain persona or share information she considered personal.
Yes, learning how to design healthy social scenarios is perhaps one of the most important rites-of-passage your daughter will encounter over the next few years.
So, equipping her with effective navigation skills are worth her time and effort.
Full Show Notes and Podcast Resources can be found at, https://cultivatingresilientteens.com/
Ep – 26 How to Support Your Daughter When Her Friendships Are Falling Apart
How to Raise a Socially Intelligent and Resilient Teenager 5 Simple Questions That Will Set Your Teenager Up for Success
Here's to cultivating a more resilient teen for all of life's adventures!
Ep - 45 How to Make Your Daughter’s Mind Work FOR Her Instead Against Her With 3 Simple Tips
Ep 44 Are you Raising a Highly Sensitive Teen? Empower her Sensitive Soul with this Proven Strategy
Ep - 43 What's the #1 Habit of a Successful Teen? Two Powerful Words: Begin Again
Ep - 42 Calm in the Storm: 3 Steps to Ease Your Daughter's Exam Anxiety
Ep - 41 The 3 Main Issues That Cause Social Anxiety and How to 'Grow Through' These Challenges
Ep - 40 How to Calm Your Daughter’s Anxious Mind So She Feels Good About Her Future
Ep – 39 What Does Your Teenage Daughter Have in Common with Other Teenage Girls?
Ep – 38 Do your Daughters’ Thoughts Really Impact her Mood and Motivation?
Ep – 37 How to Handle Your Daughter’s Toughest Social Challenge
Ep - 36 If Your Teenage Daughter Feels Misunderstood, This Podcast is for Her
Ep - 35 A Surprisingly Simple Solution to Raising a Socially Resilient Teen
Ep – 34 How to Define Your Daughter’s Ideal Tribe – Because One Size Doesn’t Fit All
Ep - 33 Deactivate Your Daughter’s Self-Doubt with this Secret Formula
Ep - 32 The Power of Having a Plan
Ep - 31 Will a Growth Mindset Make Life Easier for Your Teenage Daughter?
Ep - 30 Does your Teenage Daughter Want to be More Resilient? Here’s a Solution.
Ep 29 A Bite-Sized Solution to Protect your Daughter’s Most Important Asset
Ep - 28 How to Break Free from Thinking Errors that Wreck Your Daughter’s Confidence
Ep - 26 How to Support Your Daughter When Her Friendships are Falling Apart
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