‘I’m boring’, ‘I’m not intelligent’, I’m unattractive. I’m too this or that……’; these are words heard frequently in the therapy room. And lying underneath these derogatory statements, is a fundamental belief of ‘I’m not good enough’. This inner feeling of unworthiness then permeates every area of life, through choice of relationships, work progress and social engagements. It’s like having a millstone around your neck, as you carry this heavy psychological baggage into every situation. Fundamentally, it causes lingering pain, which you then seek to avoid through eating or not eating, through alcohol, drugs, shopping or workaholism to name a few. The coping strategies bring temporary relief from the turmoil bubbling inside your head.
In this episode, I talk about my own inner feelings of not feeling good enough, which were a root cause of my bulimia. I share tips on how to change this and boost your self-esteem sustainably. Learning to feel enough can be a life-changer in recovery. I hope that you enjoy this episode.
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Trauma Informed Nutritional Care and Creative Approaches in Eating Disorder Recovery, with Annyck Besso
A Deep Dive into Body Dysmorphic Disorder
A quick message from Harriet Frew
Eating Disorder Recovery and Unmet Childhood Needs, with Victoria Kleinsman and Harriet Frew
Healing your Wounded Inner Child in Eating Disorder Recovery, with Amber Romaniuk
The Importance of Relationships, Friendship, Connection and Co-Regulation in Eating Disorder Recovery
A Parent's Experience of Supporting her Daughter with Anorexia Nervosa, with Linda Åkerlund
Mirror Exposure Therapy in Eating Disorder Recovery
Eating Disorder Recovery: An Experience as a Black Woman, Prioritising Mental Health and Body Acceptance, with Jayde Barber
What is Body Neutrality? How Can You Embrace It?
How Fashion can Support Identity, Creativity, Healing and Self-Love in Eating Disorder Recovery, with Anne Richardson
Dealing with Comments About your Eating and People Dieting Around You, When You're in Eating Disorder Recovery
Binge Eating, Emotions, Self-Care and Body Image with Dr. Marianne Miller
Dealing with Relapse in Eating Disorder Recovery
Body Image and Disordered Eating in Athletes, Fitness Enthusiasts and Sport, with Matt Davis
A Perspective to Help You Let Go of your Eating Disorder
Developing Innovative and Personalised Treatment Programmes for People with Eating Disorders, with Professor Melainie Rogers (BALANCE Eating Disorder Treatment Center™)
Overcoming Mental Restriction in Eating Disorder Recovery
Childhood Adversity, Diet Trauma and Gastric Surgery with Safi Abdi
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