One of the most difficult thing we do as couples therapists is to get both members of a couple to feel like we get them and we want what is best for them. In this episode, EFT trainer and supervisor, Ryan Rana, walks us through the process of attuning to a client's deepest pain or attachment dilemma. Once we show them that we "get it," they will be much more hopeful about the work in couples therapy.
Ryan Rana, PhD, LMFT, LPC is an ICEEFT certified EFT Trainer, Supervisor and Therapist. He is the current President and Founder of the Arkansas EFT Center. He and his wife, Anne, founded The Joshua Center where he currently practices and acts as the Executive Director. Ryan is a sought after public speaker. Ryan also supervises and consults with clinicians and leaders in Arkansas and around the world in online platforms. In his 21 year career he has spoken to groups on over 1,000 occasions.
Find out more at ryanrana.com and arkansaseft.com
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110: Alexandra Katehakis on Sex Addiction and Healthy Sex - (rerun)
109: Janis Abrahms Spring on Healing After an Affair - (rerun)
108: Laura Long on Marketing, Niching, Websites
107: Removing Blocks to Success with Kine Corder
106: Sue Johnson on Emotionally Focused Therapy
105: Ellyn Bader on The Developmental Model of Couples Therapy - (Rerun)
104: Gottman and RLT Comparison with Zach Brittle
103: When HE Has a Higher Sex Drive than SHE with Susan Bratton
102: Couples Intensive Retreats with Kerry Lusignan
101: How to Help Your Partner Heal from an Affair with Linda MacDonald
100: Harville Hendrix on Imago Therapy - (rerun)
099: The Importance of Conflict for Couples with CrisMarie Campbell and Susan Clarke
098: Neurodiverse Couples with Grace Myhill
097: Female Desire with Lisa Taddeo
096: Elliott Connie on Solution Focused Brief Therapy
095: How to Be a Functional Adult with Jan Bergstrom
094: ADHD and Couples Therapy with Ari Tuckman
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