This weekend, You Magazine’s editor, Jo Elvin titled her Editors Letter “Ease Up Superwomen!” with a really open and honest personal story of how she struggled once she had been made redundant as it really challenged her identity. We take such pride in being considered strong, we feel that we have to be busy all the time in order to be taken seriously – I’m as bad as anyone else at not being able to sit down for any length of time which makes me think that sometimes we need to ask ourselves, WHY we are feeling the need to be superwoman? Who are we doing it for? Who are we trying to prove something to? Because if we are running from something below the surface, we will just keep running. It’s not going to go away. Don’t get me wrong, I’m a real plate spinner and that’s often a necessity in modern life but if it gets to the stage that you CAN’T stop or you are CONSTANTLY on the go in order to feel like you have to keep up, to fit in – then I think we have to be careful that we aren’t heading for a brick wall.
One of my best friend's daughters recently gave a Ted talk, which was amazing and offered the simple yet profound observation that yes we are all different, but the challenge is in staying different. If only we could get our heads around the fact that we don't have to be the same, achieve the same or live the same, then we might give ourselves space to truly blossom.
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068 The Beauty of Hindsight and Elephants
067 There's More Than One Way with Bibi Lynch
066 Everything Is On The Menu with Natalie Roy
065 Where Do We Go From Here?
064 Let's Talk About Racism
063 – Self Work: Indulgent or Invaluable? Featuring Mandi Saligari
062 No Should Sherlock
061 So I Stayed In The Car ALL Night
060 GOING SOLO, WHAT CAN I OFFER THE WORLD
059 Captain Tom, Yoga and A Jigsaw
058 LOVE WINS
057 A New Normal
056 How Do We Hold On
055 The House Of Cards
054 Finding Inner Resilience When Life Throws a Giant Curve Ball In Your Path
053 Comfort During A Time of Change
052 Sun Rise In The Car Park
051 Mountains and Molehills, managing expectations, disappointment and heartache
050 What Gets Your Goat
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