I read a post with a quote from Matt Kahn this week which didn't resonate for me.
"Why are people not nice to you? Because they're treating you the way they treat themselves and the way they've been treated by others, and they are showing you how much love lacks in their lives. Which means, they're crying out for love. And they don't know they're crying out for love and they're projecting onto you what you haven't done to keep them happy. So don't give them what they want, give them what they need: Love."
But what if the person crying out for love isn't able to accept it?
For me, anyone trapped in or wanting the abuser back—whether consciously or unconsciously—this would indicate to them, they are doing the right thing by staying and giving love. Or trapped not able to move on.
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Episode 95 The relationship was a contradiction - your very only Alice through the looking glass moment
Episode 94 Don't be deceived by the performance of the new supply!
Episode 93 Being denied CLOSURE is unhealthy; it's damaging, destructive and controlling.
Episode 92 Moving forward to the ultimate goal for 2024
Episode 91 Divorce, the Narcissist and healing from Emotional Abuse
Episode 90 Distance Healing Meditiation
Episode 89 Creating safety within a relationship - Using you body to inner-stand you’re safe
Episode 88 Creating a sense of safety and security in your life
Episode 87 Do you know how amazing you are? ♥️
Episode 86 Is it OK to label them a narcissist? And how writing can help you recover from abuse
Episode 85 What is Coercive Control, Sexual and Financial Coercive Control and how do you prove coercive control?
Episode 84 Is emotional abuse worse than physical abuse?
Episode 83 Divorce Matters and There is a DICTIONARY for Narcissistic abuse.
Episode 82 Loss of identity and how to start reclaiming YOU back.
Episode 81 What is wrong with me?
Episode 80 The difference between a Physical and Emotional Wounds
Episode 79 Is it a bird? Is it a plane? NO it’s a FLYING MONKEY!
Episode 78 Have you been wondering if you are the Narcissist?
Episode 77 Can the Narcissist and the Empath have a healthy relationship?
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