I read a post with a quote from Matt Kahn this week which didn't resonate for me.
"Why are people not nice to you? Because they're treating you the way they treat themselves and the way they've been treated by others, and they are showing you how much love lacks in their lives. Which means, they're crying out for love. And they don't know they're crying out for love and they're projecting onto you what you haven't done to keep them happy. So don't give them what they want, give them what they need: Love."
But what if the person crying out for love isn't able to accept it?
For me, anyone trapped in or wanting the abuser back—whether consciously or unconsciously—this would indicate to them, they are doing the right thing by staying and giving love. Or trapped not able to move on.
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Episode 15 Loneliness following a Narcissistic Relationship incl. short meditation
Episode 14 A hoover isn’t just something for cleaning your home!
Episode 13 The Rollercoaster of Emotions following Emotional Abuse
Episode 12 Children are sponges and take on the beliefs of the adults in their lives
Episode 11 Why the abuser needs a reaction and how to stop feeding the monster
Episode 10 Does Grey Rock Really Work?
Episode 9 The A to Z of Emotional Abuse and my healing journey
Episode 8 Coercive Control
Episode 7 How listening to your gut can help your recovery
Episode 6 The Cycle of Abuse
Episode 5 The Narcissist wants you to REACT this is a GAME
Episode 4 Triangulation the abusers #2 favourite tool
Episode 3 Cognitive Dissonance
Episode 2 Enmeshment
Episode1 Mindfuckery
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