73-Gratitude For The Experience

The research indicates that gratitude is more powerful with the things you do than the things you own (even if what you own is amazing).

 

 

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Welcome to Everyday Happiness where we create lasting happiness, in 2 minutes a day,  through my signature method of Intentional Margins® (creating harmony between your to-dos and your priorities), happiness science, and musings about life. 

 

I'm your host Katie Jefcoat and what I’ve learned is that gratitude is more powerful with the things you do than the things you own (even if what you own is amazing).

 

Research has found that we tend to feel more grateful for experiences than for things we have. There doesn’t seem to be any clear reason for this, but one of the theories is that experiences are less likely to trigger social comparisons. While ‘things’ can seduce us into comparing what we have to what other people have, experiences are more likely to shift our focus to our own personal circumstances, and expand feelings of appreciation, happiness and contentment.

 

This got me thinking about all things summer vacation to holiday gift giving.  How am I parenting and what are we focusing on here.  I feel, like a lot of parents, that my kids have everything they need to be “happy”.  They, of course, always want something more.  I don’t blame them, it’s part of human evolution.    

 

But what I can do is model this ‘gratitude for the experience’ behavior.  It can show the children (and anyone around us) where to focus our energy.  So, that’s where I’m going to focus, on the experience because the research seems to indicate that showing gratitude for the less tangible things in our lives stops us from acting and being seen as ‘entitled’, or ‘spoiled’, neither of which generally adds to your character. 

 

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