Stop beating yourself up! Not so easy. Negative self talk, inner critic, catastrophising, self-doubt spirals - they are a natural consequence of being human.
But - our rush to beat ourselfs up when we believe we have 'failed' in some way - is a real squasher! It stops us moving forward and often results in us wallowing in a swamp of self-doubt for hours, weeks or even years!
In this episode you will join me in exploring why we do this negative self-talk and - crucially - how we can manage it - accept it and then do something to move us forward.
There is a kind of mind trick involved - and it revolves around a well researched concept - 'distanced self talk' - Article here.
I also recommend the book - 'Chatter' by Ethan Kross.
And - my book - 'The Mystery of the Squashed Self' and TEDx talk.
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164: How to negotiate with your self-doubt.
163. How to be bored
162: Afraid of being judged as cocky if you are confident?
161: Why do we overreact?
160: Are you Fighting Yourself?
159: Can you Fake your Personality?
158: Don't Calm Down Dear
157: Feed Your Growth. Alan Braithwaite
156: Exploring Your Options. Trisha Lewis
154: Flourishing as an individual in a collective. With Emily Braithwaite
153: Navigating Feelings of Inferiority When Others Shine.
152: Believe in the value of your non-fiction book idea. Helen Pollock
151: Are you who you think you are?
150: Narcissistic Abuse - understand and heal. Guest Amanda Craven
149: Fear of Being Boring. Trisha Lewis.
148: Confidence Building After Health Scare: With Crescentia Cook
147: Take Back Your Power. Gerri McHugh
146: Self Belief - What is it?
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