As we continue this week with our Retiree Masterclass Series and explore the pillar of leadership, I wanted to share something I recently learned about that ties into what I wanted to discuss today. As I shared last time, the first concept of the conscious leadership paradigm is Radical Responsibility; this entails taking charge of our physical, mental, emotional, spiritual, and relational well -being. As we begin to better manage our nervous system and increase self-awareness, we are better equipped to take radical responsibility for the circumstances of our lives and become more open, curious, and growth minded. One avenue is to surround yourself with others interested in this same path.
I recently learned of a social dynamic among female elephant herds called "elephant circles" and shared it with an incredible group of women I know. Much like a women's circle, which is an ancient practice where women gather to provide a safe place to connect, share, and empower, the elephant circle is formed either when a female elephant is giving birth or if one is injured - either way the other female elephants gather in a circle protecting their sister from outside attackers when she is vulnerable. As fierce protectors, when a sister is down, they gather around her, shoulder to shoulder, they stomp, kick up dust, masking her vulnerability much like what women do for each other when they are speaking up, sharing new ideas, new spaces, and new life; when they need their people to surround them so they can create, heal, or recover - we circle up have each other's backs. After the new life comes, when healing begins, or the darkness lifts and our sister is ready to rise back up - we celebrate.
We are meant to be there for one another. Sometimes we are the one's in the middle, sometimes we are the ones kicking up the dust with fierce love.
The genius of the group is much greater than the sum of it’s brilliant parts. This is simply peer support in action.
Many first responder agencies have embedded peer support programs. Peer support is based on the premise that you can be vulnerable with others in a safe environment with those you have something in common with.
This same principle applies to retirees. A recent article by Brian Kinnaird that appears in Psychology today titled “Peer to Peer Support for Police Veterans” addresses the transition to retirement and offers suggestions for those seeking support to do so. As I mentioned last time, we spend a lot of time training and preparing for this career, but little to no attention is given to our exit; it is our responsibility to do this for ourselves. Connection with others is a component of Maslow’s hierarchy of needs that he puts after safety and physiological needs which we covered last time with the importance of nervous system regulation and stress management; but some experts argue this is the most important component.
LINKS -
www.PsychologyToday.com: Peer-to-Peer Support for Police Veterans
Episode 48: Nate Schweitale - Wichita Police Officer and co-author of - Rooster: What a Homeless Man Taught a Cop
Episode 47: Supporting First Responder Families with the LT’s Daughter, Katherine Boyle
Tactical Tip Tuesday: How will you upgrade in 2024?
Episode 46: Surviving Retirement with Police Psychologist Dr. Medina Baumgart
Episode 45 : David Kennington - Nashville Police Department Wellness Manager
Microcast: What’s Missing from the Public Safety Conversation – My Two Cents.
Episode 44: A Conversation (and a practice) with Jennifer Boileau - A Trauma Informed Yoga and Mindfulness Instructor
Tactical Tip Tuesday: The Intersection of Wellness, Peer Support, and Leadership
Episode #43: Catching up with Kim Colegrove – Books that Save Lives: The Mindfulness for Warriors Handbook
Tactical Tip Tuesday: Share Your Unique Gift with the World
Second Mountain Masterclass Series (Part 3) - Myth of ”Strength in Suppression”, and shout out to Federal Pretrial West Texas Region
Episode #42: Financial Freedom for First Responders with Courtney from Heroes Financial Coaching
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YogaFit for Warriors with Shaye Molendyke
Episode 40: Yoga Rescue with Vance Row
Episode 39: A conversation with Kyle Stubbs, First Responder Coach and founder of the Nine8 Program
Episode #38: Karen Solomon - FIRST H.E.L.P. Honoring the Service of First Responders Who Died By Suicide
Second Mountain Masterclass Series - Finding Meaning Health and Vitality in Retirement
Episode #37: Mindfulness and Purpose with Blue Line Golf founder Matt Mintier
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