Welcome Back No-Problem Parents!
Do you have a tween or teen that is struggling with;
• Ongoing conflicts in relationships
• Intense and rapid mood changes
• Inability to relax
• Trouble recognizing choice
• Holding in anger, then “blowing up” at others
• Impulsive or reactive decisions they often regret
• Self-medicating with substances, e.g., food, sugar, alcohol,
"busy-ness", spending, etc.
• Feeling overwhelmed
• Avoiding responsibilities, people, or events
• “Numbing out” in response to fear, anger, etc?
Are you worried, nervous around them, unsure what to do or how to talk to your teen? Are you trying to be your child's friend in an effort to be relatable or smooth things over enough to have a good day? Guess what? Your uncertainty, your "being nice" may actually be causing our kids to be anxious and ashamed.
Listen in to the conversation about how we need to talk with our teens as much (or more)
about our thoughts as we do our feelings.
Meet Dr. J.J. Kelly, of Unorthodocs, Inc.
"After 16 years of passionately working in the current system of the mental health profession and seeing the systemic sexism, racism, homophobia, ableism, narcissism and elitism…I wanted nothing more than to burn it all down. Then I decided to redirect my outrage into building something new based on love, laughter, and teaching emotional intelligence – because I believe that global healing is achieved by teaching people the skills to like themselves, or as I always say….Happy people act right."
Dr. J.J. offers courses through her Get Real Program, an emotional skills training program based on Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT). DBT was developed by Dr. Marsha Linehan and combines Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT) and Zen Mindfulness skills from Thich Nhat Hahn’s book, The Miracle of Mindfulness.
"DBT is The Sh**, and I make learning a complex set of concepts and skills fun and funny. Yer gonna laugh yourself right into healthy…” – Dr. Kelly
Listen in as Dr. J.J. Kelly shares that Emotional Intelligence is key to building self-esteem, Family Values are more important than having a "friendship" with your child and why humor is SO important to our mental health!
"Global healing is achieved by teaching people the skills to like themselves. The Get Real Program created by licensed clinical psychologist Dr. J.J. Kelly does just that."
Learn more about Dr. J.J. Kelly's approach, programs and freebies by clicking the links:
https://www.drjjkelly.com/
Follow the Punk Rock Doc on IG: https://www.instagram.com/drjjkelly/
During our conversation I share the Make it Right Technique which can be found here:
The Make It Right Technique for No-Problem Parents
Thank You Dr. Kelly for the fun conversation and sharing your authentic self and perspective. I appreciate your candidness and genuine care for teenagers.
Hugs & High Fives,
Jaci
PS: To learn more about how YOU can Become a No-Problem Parent™, get started here:
https://www.noproblemparenting.com/
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EP. 253 Learn the Skills to Like Yourself: The Holy SH*T Book Series with Dr. J.J. Kelly [Explicit] Part 3/3
EP 252: How Sleep Routines, Meal Timing, and Breathwork Boost Stress Resilience with Melissa Deally
EP 251 Be Excited for Your Kids to Use Technology with Jaci Finneman
EP 250 Three Tips to Prevent Step-Mom Burnout with Jen Rogers on Mindset and Motivation Monday
EP 249 Be Prepared: Getting that Call from School to Pick Up Your Kid
EP 248 'I Don't Wanna Turn 3!" Grandparenting Insights and Resources from Baby Boomer Gramps Jeffrey
EP 247: Money Lessons from the Grocery Store with Chella Diaz
EP 246 Strength in Vulnerability: Starts with Naming Your Emotions with Dr J.J. Kelly Part 2/3
EP 245 Sleep Success: Setting Up Your Mind and Room for Restorative Sleep with Melissa Deally (Part 2/3)
EP 244 Screen-Free Independent Play, Storytelling, Imagination and Creativity
EP 243 Prioritize and Organize Your Home and Work Space with Adria Firestone
EP 242 The Healing Power of Hugs: whether you like them or not with Jaci Finneman
EP 241 Rella B Books: Nurturing Imagination, Self-Love, and Play in Childhood + Tongue Tie, Breastfeeding, and Elimination Communication Insights
EP 240 Teaching Kids to Earn Money and Boosting Family Cash Flow on Financial Fitness Friday
EP 239 Thoughts vs Feelings: Getting Real with Dr. JJ Kelly of Unorthodocs, Inc [EXPLICIT] Part 1/3
EP 238 Sleep Saviors: Unmasking the Impact of Blue Light with Melissa Deally Part 1 of 3
EP 237 Empowering Education: Clare Richards on Revolutionizing School Supplies and Classroom Success with Claire Richards
EP 236 Breathe, Pause, Calm: Raising Good Humans Every Day with Hunter Clarke-Fields
EP 235 From Crappy to Happy: Crushing Mom Guilt and Igniting Inner Greatness with Trina and Tara from Power Mom
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