Remi Adeleke’s life changed abruptly when his father died—when his family went from being royalty in Nigeria to struggling to feed themselves in the Bronx.
The public education system was so poorly resourced and Remi was exposed to precious few role models in his early life. As a result, he didn’t feel that there was an expectation for him to even graduate high school; it seemed the only path available was stealing, selling drugs, and running scams.
But when Remi hit rock bottom at 26 and realized, he needed something bigger than himself. That’s when Remi met Tiana Reyes, a military recruiter who helped him find his true path. Tiana was also from the Bronx, so she was passionate about helping to give young people from the neighborhood an opportunity to establish a career and explore the world—because she knew that not many other people would give them the chance.
Tiana attended multiple court hearings to advocate for him and helped him fill out the paperwork to get Remi into the Navy. Once in Navy boot camp, Remi was exposed to all the different programs and set his heart on becoming a Navy SEAL.
But it wasn’t a slam dunk. He didn’t pass the academic test on his first attempt and, even if he had, he wouldn’t have passed the physical test because he didn’t know how to swim. But Remi’s mother always taught him to persevere, and he drew on that to train and study in the time outside of his role as a medic. The hard work paid off and Remi was accepted into Navy SEAL training.
In addition to fulfilling his dream of becoming a Navy SEAL, Remi is an actor, entrepreneur, writer, husband, and father. He has written a memoir about his life called Transformed and volunteers as a mentor for kids in similar situations that he was in.
He believes that the past does not have to be a template for our future, that there is always hope and that you can help a person so much that you’re actually hurting them because you're enabling them to keep doing what they’re doing.
As for all the hardships, setbacks and failures in his life, Remi says they made him who he is today because “you can't grow without failure.”
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Instagram: @remiadeleke Twitter: @RemiAdeleke Facebook: @RemiAdeleke LinkedIn: @RemiAdeleke Read: TransformedEp. 35 - Preparation, Perseverance and Big Wave Surfing - with Tyler Fox
Ep. 34 - Resilience, Adversity, Risk & the Champion’s Mindset - with Juliet Starrett
Ep. 33 - A.J. Hawk: Learning About Process & Consistency With A Super Bowl Champion
Ep. 32 - Learning About Holistic Fitness & The Warrior Tradition - with Greg Amundson
Ep. 31 - From Crowd Surfing To Crowdfunding HANSNAP - with Justis Earle
Ep. 30 - Hard Work, Perseverance, & Purpose Are An Entrepreneur’s Best Friend - with Matthew Swinnerton
Ep. 29 - David Dennis: Bootstrapping A Positive Change With Passion
Ep. 28 - Building A Business With Trust, Risk, & Soul - with Bernie Swain
Ep. 27 - Choosing To Live A Life Of Success & Significance - with Aaron Walker
Ep. 26 - Learning & Leadership With the Queen Of Questions - AmyK Hutchens
Ep. 25 - Navy SEAL & Leadership Expert Jocko Willink: Taking Extreme Ownership
Ep. 24 - Kelly Starrett: Movement In A Sedentary Society
Ep. 23 - Ryan Hawk: From NCAA Quarterback To the Learning Leader
Ep. 22 - Ryan Michler: Helping Men Become Strong Leaders
Ep. 21 - Get Unstuck & Get Your Momentum - with Jason & Jodi Womack
Ep. 20 - Chris Faddis: How Losing His Wife Led Him To Launch A Food Revolution
Ep. 19 - Geoff Woods: How Leaning Into Adversity Created A Platform For Impact
Ep. 18 - Bob Burg: How Becoming A Go-Giver Can Be A Game Changer
Ep. 17 - Honoree Corder: How Short-Term Massive Action Can Lead To Long-Term Massive Results
Ep. 16 - Tom Bilyeu: How Clarity Of Purpose Drove Quest Nurition's 57,000% Growth
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